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THE REALITIES OF SPIRITUAL
PSYCHOTHERAPY
Positing the peculiar Sense Of Separation carried by
most
human beings
to be the primary cause for their neurotic behavior (including
compulsive normality or conformity), the underlying neurosis of which
being an unidentifiable anxiety - an unnerving and unrelenting sense
that something is wrong and needs to be fixed. Also positing the
misdiagnosis of this unrecognized and untreated potentially minor
neurosis and trying to fix it as the cause of all identifiable major
neuroses and psychoses, which manifest as ill health and unpleasant
behavior in their search to be healed.(and the Pinnacles of Sufi Psychology and Healing) Dedicated to my Mother and my Father, Manifestations of Divine Love THE END OF HEALING Understanding our Primary Mission, the Importance of its Completion and the Significance of the Absence of its Completion. Trying to fix it necessarily denies its root cause. Trying to fix it posits it as true and therefore potentially remediable. From this false belief come all the so-called remedial attempts that have only served to complicate and obfuscate the real problem, which is a perfectly normal and understandable sense of separation. All illness and unpleasant behavior is a call for help. This could be recognized as an undeniable truth. If our primary mission is to know God, and God created us for that, then how can we fail if our will is in sync with Divine will, and Divine will be done. (as in finished?) What does it mean, "The book is written and the ink is dry"? So if knowing God is our primary mission, and it's done already, why do we not feel complete? Why do we still sense incompleteness? (Hadith about children, heaven and parents) Why are we still behaving in response to neurotic behavior patterns? Why are we not at peace - in harmony and joy with ourselves and with others? Why do we still have anxieties which lead to ill health? Perfection is an Attitude! We can adopt it if we choose. We can choose to see perfection, or we can choose to seek for faults. Faultfinding is actually blame. We're blaming the fault for and to manifest our dissatisfaction. In order to blame a fault we have to find one - hence faultfinding. OR, we can choose to see perfection, and can God see otherwise? It is only from our sense of separation that we seek. If we had no sense of separation we would not feel the need or desire to SEEK Unity. Why should we seek what we already have, what is already there? If the Sense Of Separation is recognized as the fundamental illusion, and all neuroses as extensions and perpetuations of this fundamental illusion, then it would stand to reason that the healing of this Sense of Separation would eliminate the primary fault upon which all neurotic manifestations were constructed. It seems as though everyone agrees that Unity is the resolution of all problems, and that a Sense Of Separation is the primary agitation that causes acting out and repression. When we feel One with ourselves everything feel fine. Agitation is an absence of this feeling of Oneness/everything is fine. We then diagnose this agitation and prescribe for it which only posits it as real and somehow fixable. 'Diagnosis and prescription' is the thought form of a mechanic, not of a healer. Healers look for cause, not changes in the effect. HEALING THE SENSE OF
SEPARATION
Bu if we are NOT separate from God, as it is an impossibility, what is the TRUE Source of the sense of separation which is the source of the agitation the desire for the cure of which leads us into all forms of neurotic behavior? THE PRIMARY
MISSION THEORY
A Spiritual Perspective on Holistic Health Understanding the Complexities of Healing Parents and Children |